100 questions
Questions for couples
The best conversations often start with one good question. Here are questions for couples sorted by mood: for first dates, for long late-night talks, for laughing and for a little more than laughing. Tap the button for a random question and take turns, or send a question as a message and wait for the answer.
A game for two
What's your favorite childhood memory?
Getting to know you
- What's your favorite childhood memory?
- What cheers you up fastest on a bad day?
- Which song always takes you back to a particular summer?
- What does your perfect day off look like?
- What food never gets old for you?
- What are you most afraid of that few people know about?
- Which city is at the top of your wish list?
- Which film can you watch over and over again?
- Are you a morning person or a night owl?
- Which quality do you value most in a friend?
- What made you happiest as a child?
- Which hobby have you wanted to try for ages?
- Who in your family understands you best?
- What's your favorite word, and why?
- What are you proud of but rarely say out loud?
- Which place calms you down best?
- What was your first job like?
- What's the first thing on your mind when you wake up?
- What's the most important lesson life has taught you so far?
- What's your favorite smell, and what does it remind you of?
Deep questions
- What does love mean to you, in one sentence?
- When did your heart last feel completely at peace?
- What scares you most when it comes to relationships?
- Is there a decision from your past that you see differently today?
- What do you need most when things are hard, but find hard to ask for?
- What do you want people to remember you for?
- What has changed you most in life?
- Which promise to yourself are you still keeping?
- How do you know you can trust someone?
- What do you find hardest to forgive?
- What do you want your children to learn from you one day?
- Which moment from your childhood shaped you?
- What does home mean to you: a place or people?
- How are you different today from yourself five years ago?
- What fulfills you most without earning you money?
- In which moments are you most yourself?
- What do you think people get wrong about you?
- What's the nicest compliment anyone has ever given you?
- What does your happiness look like ten years from now?
- What holds you together when everything else gives way?
Fun questions
- If you could have one superpower for a day, which would it be?
- What's the strangest food that's ever ended up on your plate?
- Which song do you sing out loud the moment you hear it, wherever you are?
- Which animal is most like you in character?
- What's your most embarrassing moment in public?
- Which series has stolen the most nights of sleep from you?
- If you won the lottery, what would your first purchase be?
- What's your biggest kitchen disaster?
- Which famous person, living or not, would you love to have dinner with?
- Which app on your phone can't you go a day without?
- What's your hidden talent?
- Pineapple on pizza: yes or no? Careful, a lot depends on this.
- Which word do you say so often it's become your trademark?
- If you could live inside any film, which one would it be?
- What's the craziest thing on your bucket list?
- Which emoji best describes your typical Monday?
- Which cartoon do you still know by heart?
- What always ends up in your basket even though it wasn't on the list?
- If life had a soundtrack, which song would play when you walk into a room?
- Which haircut from your old photos makes you laugh the most?
About us
- What caught your eye about me first?
- What's your favorite moment of ours so far?
- At what moment did it become clear that you liked me?
- Which little thing I do brightens your day without me knowing?
- Where do you see us in five years?
- What's our song, and why that one?
- What would you like us to do together more often?
- How do you most like me to show love: with words, touch or actions?
- Which trip do we have to take together?
- What makes you laugh most about the two of us?
- When we argue, what helps you calm down most?
- What's our wildest adventure together?
- Which little tradition would you like just the two of us to have?
- What haven't we tried yet that we should?
- What does our perfect night in look like?
- What do you think people notice when they see us together?
- Which of my habits drives you crazy but still charms you?
- What do you need from me when you're having a hard day?
- Which of our days would you like to live again?
- What do you hope we never stop doing?
Would you rather
- Would you rather: the sea or the mountains?
- Would you rather: dinner at a restaurant or pizza on the couch?
- Would you rather: a trip with no plan or a perfectly planned holiday?
- Would you rather know the future or change the past?
- Would you rather: a morning in bed or a sunrise on a hilltop?
- Would you rather: a handwritten letter or a surprise visit?
- Would you rather: a weekend in a big city or in a cabin with no internet?
- Would you rather always tell the truth or always hear it?
- Would you rather: dancing in the kitchen or a walk in the rain?
- Would you rather we shared a hobby or each had our own, so we always have something to talk about?
Spicy questions
- What do you find most attractive about me but never say out loud?
- Which of our kisses do you remember best?
- Where would a kiss surprise you most?
- Which of my outfits do you like best?
- Which look of mine instantly makes your heart race?
- What's your perfect romantic weekend, with no limits?
- Which message from me tonight would make you hurry home?
- Which part of the day do you love most when we're alone?
- What gets you most about me: my voice, my scent or my touch?
- In which unusual place would you like me to hug you and not let go?
How to play questions for couples
- Take turns
One asks, the other answers, then swap. No skipping, except once per evening.
- Listen more than you talk
The best part of the game isn't your answer, it's what you learn about the other person.
- Save the spicy ones for last
Start with the light questions. Once the conversation warms up, the rest come on their own.